3 Counterintuitive Techniques To Get Back With Your Ex

Trying to get back with ex can be difficult to do. You may be worried that you will make the wrong move and lose the person you love for good. Sometimes, unfortunetly, what you feel is the right thing to do can be wrong. Most times it is better to follow a counterintuitive approach. When you feel like you should be calling ex is probably when you should back off instead. When you feel like you need to pour your heart out to ex it is most likely best to put a lid on it.

Warning

The techniques you are about to discover may feel completely wrong, but there is proof in the pudding. These techniques have been used time and again to effectively help people get back with ex. Even in what has seemed like the most complicated situation these techniques have proven successful.

Counterintuitive Technique #1

The first technique is agree with and accept the fact that your ex has broken up with you. This can be very difficult and you will probably have quite the internal battle before you are really able to do this.

However, it can help to understand why you need to accept the breakup, and how it can help you get back together. You need to give your ex time to respect and miss you again. There is a good chance they are mad or upset with right now, especially if you've been nagging them about getting back together.


Counterintuitive Technique #2

The second technique you need is to cut off all communication. I know, at this point you are probably thinking "this is nuts" But hold on, because this really does work. It helps you to accept the break up and shows your ex that you can deal with the break up in a mature way.
By not communicating you are allowing your ex time to miss you and time to get over the reasons for breaking up. This space will be good for your mental health as well, and will help you to think clearly. It also sets you up for the next technique to get back with ex.

Counterintuitive Technique #3

The next technique is to plan an event where you two can reconnect. Beware as there are many critical steps in between that can really increase your chances at success. Discover all the counterintuitive and unconventional steps to get back with ex.